A Tale of a Stranger

The other half of my soul is out there somewhere.

People walk in and out of our lives. Who stays and who leaves is never within our vicinity of control. I had so many questions that only his silent understanding eyes answered. What was he made of? Tears began rolling down my eyes. I was not embarrassed (at least for that moment) to open myself up this way over our first dinner out at my favourite restaurant. I had saved the place for someone else and for a special occasion, instead I was crying it all out to this good-looking man with a small goatee, who had only perhaps wanted a companion for the evening. He didn’t question anything I said, or ask for more details. He wasn’t curious about what went so wrong that I was such a gory mess today. He merely understood and smiled a comforting smile. He joked about my choice of food, to lighten me up. I had lost my appetite, but I did not want to kill his evening. I had to play host instead of my friend who had chosen at the last minute to… well never mind that. Here I was anyway. I apologised for the emotional outburst and asked him if he would be interested in a dessert at a nearby café. (After an emotional outburst I always needed chocolate or dessert to pacify myself.) I was sure he had more than just food to digest that night. I had something to take back home, myself.

I managed to return home in one piece, and tried hard not to dwell on the embarrassment I had caused myself. The mind has a mind of its own, if you know what I mean. I began to wonder what an impression I must have left on Mr. M’s mind. He must surely think that the evening was a disaster, and I, on the other hand, was glad the dinner happened. There was nothing special about Mr. M or I merely chose not to see it. This man who was sitting on the other side of the table from me, while enjoying the fish and wine and spaghetti, paid attention to all the shrill-voiced and teary eyed ranting from a woman whom he had met just then. Where were my manners? It didn’t matter, since I found comfort. It felt as though he had sprinkled some invisible stardust, and a huge dark cloud had lifted off my head. I felt strange that I should feel this way, the first time I met Mr.M, but I was sure to get a night-long dreamless sleep .

Later that night, as I changed into my nightwear and prepared to go to bed, I thought about the decision that had changed and affected my life and thoughts in a manner that would be irreparable. All because of one man. He definitely wasn’t the soul mate whom I hoped to meet during the course of my life. He was perhaps only a karmic line that crossed my life’s path to teach me lessons from another lifetime. My world revolved around him, and then walked in Mr.M who told me that life is to be lived otherwise, not shelved by/for someone, and that I should follow my heart no matter how painful the journey or how tormenting the person you spend your days with. With each passing day we think that nothing has changed, but one day when we look back we realise that nothing is the same anymore, except for the beating of our heart.

I thought, before I fell asleep, of the numerous nights I had spent staring at the roof, unable to let my mind rest on one thought for more than a jiffy. Most often I was unaware of the hours I spent crying until my face felt cold from the tears that were drying up. I never spoke about these nights to anyone, should I be thought of as an overreacting drama queen. There was nothing to talk about. I was angry with everyone including myself and life’s punches were too painful. I broke down again at dinner that evening, with Mr.M, and knew for once, that it would be the last I cried. Will I stop the one I love from leaving me or walking away from me? I have often thought about it. Would I? Will I? I never do. I silently send out a prayer or a wish and let destiny do the talking. Not once but twice I have been slapped in the face. When will I ever learn my lesson? There is no lesson to learn. Where are the stars that need to do all the match fixing? Where is dear old karma? Those thin fine lines from lives past that will create chance encounters that will last for life? More importantly what was I to do with the piles of memories lined up in every memory room in my head? There is more than meets the eye, isn’t it?

Love, then, is a learned language!

*Image: Rendition of photograph by Mira


6 thoughts on “A Tale of a Stranger

  1. Harish says:

    How happy is the blameless vestal’s lot!
    The world forgetting, by the world forgot.
    Eternal sunshine of the spotless mind!
    Each pray’r accepted, and each wish resign’d;
    – Alexander Pope

    People can’t truly erase memories but you can create new ones. Lovely start to blogging, would love to see your art work here also! Cheers.


  2. Ganesh says:

    Memory is just memory, unless our mind decides to add bells and whistles to it and make it sharply rustle. A silent history of a solid past. If life is a video game, then surely past is how you earn EXP. Nice write-up. Will be sure to drop in from time to time! 🙂

    “The best revenge is to be unlike him who performed the injury” –Marcus Aurelius



  3. Munchkie says:

    Memories are nothing but scars that are left behind in your mind. Unfortunately, happiest moments too will leave a scar. You cannot live without memories unless there is total acceptance of any situation.

    Enjoyed reading. Keep up the good work.


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